Faith Manifest in Love

"We all yearn for the love of God and we do all we can to earn it. But the love of God isn't something we can earn. 1 John 3:1 "See how very much our Father loves us, for he calls us his children, and that is what we are!" Let your faith be manifested in love. * Can you be mentally/emotionally divorced? * "Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:18 Our thankfulness is always a response to the grace of God. * Please explain James 4:1-3 "What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don't they come from the evil desires at war within you?..."