Grace is Personal

Here's what Paul wrote to Titus 2:11-14 "For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, ... " So often we relegate grace to salvation. But Paul makes it clear that it's grace from start to finish. What type of relationship should a believer have with the Ten Commandments?Jay asks about being "in Christ" as a location.